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It
is when I least expect it that the monster reaches out of the shadows
to wrap his icy claws around my heart again. For more than 2 decades,
I have run thinking I would outrun the specter. It was almost 2
decades before I knew what I was running from. Once I knew, I felt
empowered and confident. The truth shall set you free, right?
Ignorance is bliss, and sometimes it might be better to keep it that
way.
The
truth is: he is always lurking and always hungry for the next moment
of weakness. I should have seen the attack brewing this time. I guess
my eyes got too full of the future to keep looking back at the past
trying to anticipate the next onslaught. I was minding my own
business with a head full of plans and a heart full of hope. Truth be
told, it was a huge relief to think of something more than looking
over my shoulder wondering how to prepare for the next battle.
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My
biggest problem was the sense that my blog series on parenting might
have been too broad. I was wrestling with how to manage that dilemma
while laying plans for 2 new writing ventures. It was a heady time
for a fraidy cat like me. Just the kind of time I should have
expected the past and present to collide with enough force to derail
the future. Monsters don't give up easy.
Here's
the thing about fraidy cats, we have a propensity for derailing. It
may be, in fact, what we do best. Fear of (insert your fear here)
makes it easy for us to shrink back and avoid moving toward the thing
we want most in the world. Fear curls up around us like a warm fuzzy
blanket on a frigid winter night. Fear becomes our comfort zone.
We
become so comfortable that we don't realize the blanket has become a
noose around our necks. We waken one day to find all hope has been
strangled out of our lives as the blanket became an ever tighter
noose. We forget when we forgot to breathe.
Fear
sidled up beside me and whispered sweet nothings. “You are getting
too big for your britches, Girl. Who do you think YOU are? Why mess
up a good thing? Keep on doing what you are doing, but don't dare
dream of anything more.”
I
choked back the doubt and fear. I had trusted God last May when he
had filled my heart with the plan for this blog. I would trust him
again as he unfolded plans for these 2 new projects. I am so easily
derailed. I am still so very, very fragile. I am easy pickings for
monsters who never give up.
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When
I ask why, my counselor says it is because I am of a sincere heart.
The more sincere the heart, the more paralyzing the fear of failure
and of rebuke. How well she knows me. Given the depth of my
sincerity, any perceived word of caution, rebuke, or ridicule gives
me more than pause. Even if the word of caution comes wrapped as a
'joke', my heart cries, “Oh, NO! Is it TRUE? Is that me?” The
fear is so real that I might as well be teetering on the brink of a
precipice ready to fall.
When
it came, the stealthiness of the attack took my breath away. As the
air in my lungs vaporized into nothingness, so did my words. One day
became a week which became an eternity in my soul as I waited for the
words to come again. Would I ever write again?
I
would be lying if I told you words flow freely from my heart onto
this keyboard tonight. Every word is agony. I am typing through sheer
force of will. I am typing because I refuse to let the monster have
one more day of my life. Of our lives.
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I
am typing through the fear that questions my humility, my clarity of
vision, my sensitivity to God's call, my ability to honor God with my
efforts, and even my very way with words. I am typing because I
refuse to let fear rule one more day of my life. Of our lives.
Monsters
feed on the knowledge that fear controls us. Even if they manage us
by proxy from the dark and distant past, fear is their weapon of
choice because it works so well. Until it doesn't work anymore.
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And
so, tonight, I pick myself up and survey the damage. I count the cost
of the battle we have waged to survive. I count the cost of the race
required to stay one step ahead of the fears that threaten to defeat
me. I have lived to fight another day. I have lived to write again.
Isaiah
40:29 (NIV)
He
gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.
Psalm
29:11 (NIV)
The
LORD gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with
peace.
